BE METICULOUS

I am a very reserved person, which is both my weakness and strength. I don't make decisions in a rush, I am slow to anger and sometimes I see things and keep them to myself for peace sake, I believe that's strength too.

Then comes the weaknesses being a reserved person can make people undermine you just because you don't say much and you are calm, people are used to chaos and being bullied that when they meet a different person, they think they can take advantage of them, another weakness is delay, because you are reserved person, you take time before you unfold, sometimes situations force you to unfold quickly just to stretch you a bit.

However, everything you need, everything you want for your life, is within you. You have been created in such a way that everything about you compliments your life, your dreams no matter how big you think they are, you have bigger capacities inside of you, your weaknesses work together with your strengths to give the end product of who you are supposed to be if you let them. 

I am reserved but courageous so when fear sneaks in telling me what I can't do because I am not loud, the courage walks in and tells me exactly why I am the right person to do it because I am not loud. I learned not to hate myself for the things I am not instead I look at all that I am not, and I see opportunities of who I can be, because inside of me there is a whole lot more than my weaknesses.

The same with you... if right now there are people who are aware of what you lack, your weakness and possibilities are all these people think you won't make it, don't be the next person to bring you down, be aware of your weaknesses and know that they don't make you a disqualified candidate, there is so much more in you that makes you over qualified, that makes you deserving, that makes you worthy, that makes you amazing as much as you are aware of your weaknesses, your past, your background be aware of the wisdom too, the perseverance, the patience too and the kindness that makes you worthy of the position you want, the business you are about to open, the lives you're about to touch and watch as your weaknesses work together with your strengths to create the force that you are. You make so much sense, as complicated as you are, you make so much sense.

GOOD NEWS WE OVERCAME

There's a distinctly un-festive atmosphere this year, but nonetheless, we've got to keep the Christmas spirit alive. 

"And so it was, that, while they were there, the days were accomplished that she should be delivered. And she brought forth her firstborn son, and wrapped him in swaddling clothes, and laid him in a manger; because there was no room for them in the inn."- Luke 2:6‭-‬7 KJV

The event referred to in the above scripture is one that leads to the salvation of mankind. After the angel of God prophesied to Mary that she would carry the Son of God (Luke 1:1-38), Mary indeed fell pregnant. During the time of a census that was taking place, Mary and Joseph went to Bethlehem to be counted there because Joseph was a descendant of David. When they arrived in Bethlehem, there was no room for them at the inn because of the crowds that had come to Bethlehem. They were forced to find accommodation in a keeping place for animals. While they were there, Mary gave birth to our Lord Jesus.

Please note the lowliness of the place God chose for His birth. As a King, He could have chosen to manifest as a privileged ruler, but He intentionally chose to be born in meekness like one of us. He set aside His divine privileges and He gave up His glory to be born in a keeping place for animals. There is a reason His birth was not high-profile or in the most elegant of places, however. His humble birth conveyed an amazing message to all mankind. He wanted lowly people like us to have free access to Him. This was to welcome us to His kingdom.

When we celebrate Christmas, we need to be reminded that God left His comfort and riches in heaven and subjected Himself to being poor and owning nothing just so that we can have access to Him and His glorious riches. This is how important you are to the Father. Jesus was carried in the womb and was born through natural means as a dependent new-born like us. Can you imagine the kind of love that drove God to become human just for you? Christ manifestation was a reflection of God's character and heart.

The Lord humbled Himself so that the scripture in Isaiah 61:1-2 may come to pass in our lives. Those who have received Him are no longer poor; their lives are now enriched. Most of us ran to Him with broken hearts and the merciful Lord mended them back together. He assumed a lower position so that captives are set free, and we are free indeed. We were blind but now we can see. He came to restore all that was lost and to bring favour and goodwill upon mankind.

He paraded the forces of evil in defeat, and this is the reason we must celebrate Christmas. May you enjoy all the benefits of the cross keeping in mind everything that the Lord went through for you in the name of Jesus Christ!

Take note: Be safe on and off the roads remember to apply the Covid-19 precaution measures and most importantly stay blessed, this year is almost over and we know most of us have our hopes up high for the next year but whatever it may be let's all stay strong and be prepared for whatever it throws at us because worry has no transformational value. #HappyHolidays #HappyFestiveSeason #BestWishes #Family #StaySafe

DON'T ABDICATE YOUR LIFE

Don't envy. Don't be jealous. Don't covert another's life. Most importantly, don't let your mood, emotions, self-worth, and self-esteem be controlled by other people's seconds of impression management.

Don't forget that a photo captures a second in time. It is just a little glimpse. A brief snippet of reality. Not all the reality. And that second can be staged and photoshopped. We are creatures that are excellent at impression management to manipulate how we are seen by the world.

However, sadness, lack of fulfillment and insecurities inside know better. Can't be fooled. I appreciate the love, support, teachings, advice, and encouragement offered. However, remember to always keep things in perspective.

Just like we can never know what happens behind closed doors. So, it is also true that we don't know what other people's lives are genuinely like beyond those captured seconds. Stay grounded and fulfilled with your own life. Your view of your life is 24/7... that is the one that you should truly focus on. Nourish, make better today than it was yesterday. You can draw inspiration from other people's captured seconds. But don't let those images rule and influence the quality of your life and your Joy, have happy holidays! #love #selflove #selfcare #appreatelife #appreatiateyourlovedones #festiveseason #happiness #happyholidays