In some cases, especially when it comes to the past, all you can do is accept whatever it is you're holding on to and then let it go. That's how everything changes. You have to let go of what is hurting you, even if it feels almost impossible. Deciding to hold on to the past will hold you back from creating a strong sense of self, a self that isn't defined by your past, but rather by who you want to be.
Oddly enough, painful feelings can be comfortable, especially if they're all you know. Some people have trouble letting go of their pain or other unpleasant emotions about their past because they think those feelings are part of their identity. In some ways, they may not know who they are without their pain. This makes it impossible for them to let go.
Often times God will wreck certain things or relationships in your life when He sees that they have a potential of wrecking you! But are you strong enough to trust God in the immediate pain, in hopes that there's a better tomorrow? It may sound easy but it's not.
So many people today are standing in front of a closed door that has no treasure on the other side because ego keeps telling them, "You're not supposed to lose this!" God is faithful enough to only remove the things He knows He will replace, and the replacement is always bigger and better. So, stop holding onto broken dreams and "could have been's." There's something so beautiful God has crafted in your tomorrow. #itwillsoonmakesense #trusttheprocess #believe #outgrowtogrow #forthebetter #changeisnotbad #happysundayeveryone #takecare
